Friday, October 7, 2011

My 30 by 30 List (And Why You Need One Too!)

This is personal in nature but there is a moral to this story...

A few other bloggers have posted 40 by 40 lists. Well, 40 is 15 years away for me, so I have to cut it down a bit to the 30 by 30 list. I have five years to go, and I want to prioritize some of the things I would like to do.

So here's my 30 by 30 list (in no particular order):

  1. Post to this blog at least 2-3 times per week regularly
  2. Audition for a play at the St. Louis Black Rep Done 10/15/11
  3. Complete my B.S. degree program
  4. Get a full-tuition+stipend fellowship to attend Grad School
  5. Renew my wedding vows in a destination ceremony
  6. Build up at least a six month emergency fund
  7. Get into a size 10/12 pants
  8. Learn to put off procrastination and manage time better (no pun intended)
  9. Earn a six figures so that my hubby can stop working
  10. Get into a regular sleeping schedule (I need a bedtime!)
  11. Empower at least 10 people to start their own businesses
  12. Comment on at least 5 other blog posts per day to increase my blog's exposure
  13. Pay off my car (and don't buy another one)
  14. Donate eggs (have to get healthy for this)
  15. Go jet skiing
  16. Swim with the dolphins
  17. Visit Las Vegas
  18. Start a business with my hubby
  19. Purchase a vacation home
  20. Go skydiving
  21. See Whoopi Goldberg live
  22. Go to the Essence Music Festival
  23. Visit NYC (though I'm scared of this place)
  24. Join Toastmasters
  25. Become a keynote speaker
  26. Finish writing and publish my book on customer service
  27. Pay off all credit cards (and only use them if they can be paid in full every month)
  28. Become a Big Sister (with Big Brothers/Big Sisters - not from my mom having more kids)
  29. Go to church regularly again
  30. Give 10% of ANY and ALL income to God
Wow, that was refreshing - sharing my goals with you in the form of this list makes everything concrete. I will be updating this list as I complete each task. Now, why do you care? Well, this should inspire you to create your own list. You don't have to publish it online, but you should have one. You should share it with people who will hold you accountable. After all, if you don't have lists, how will you know if you've done everything you wanted to do?

Another thing I considered while writing my list is that each task/goal should be SMART. You've probably heard that acronym before - it stands for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Timed.

Specific is what it is - you must be able to say exactly what you want to do. For instance, with #21, I didn't just say that I want to see a celebrity live, I specifically said that I want to see Whoopi Goldberg.

Measurable means that the goal must be something that can be quantified or tracked. Some of my goals are rather vague - for example #29 - I said that I want to go to church "regularly". What is regularly? That won't mean the same thing to everyone. However, I couldn't go much further with that. I didn't want to say every Sunday or every Wednesday because I don't know when I will go.

If something is attainable, that means that it's possible. All of the things I've listed here are within reach. I may have to work hard to make them happen, but they are all within reach.

Relevancy is subjective. What's relevant to me may not be relevant to you. However, all of my goals are VERY relevant to me.

Timed goals are set into a time box of sorts. All of these goals, I want to achieve by the age of 30. There's my timebox.

So, what's on your list? How are you holding yourself accountable?

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6 comments:

eliseconnors said...

Thanks for the comment! I know that the best is yet to come! :-)

Myra Golden said...

I enjoyed reading your 30 x 30 list. I am so energized by watching people set and achieve their goals. Much success to you! http://www.myragolden.com.

eliseconnors said...

Thanks for your comment, lady! I'm already actively working on several of these and am proud to say I have an appt to do #2 (not that #2 *wink*) this coming Saturday. I am also looking forward to being a Big. It will be a time struggle, but that will give me a good reason to get out of the house and do something different.

As far as NYC, girl it looks so big and scary! I'm a small town girl :-). Life seems to move so fast in NYC - and well, me and fast aren't best buddies... ;-)

Lakesha Brown said...

Cool list and I look forward to seeing you achieve them all!

Also, you will love being a big sister. I was a Big for a few years and had 2 Littles who I still keep in touch with to this day (even though they are grown now with families). It was such a rewarding experience.

Now I have to ask, why are you scared of NYC? I wanna go just once to be a complete tourist :-)

~K

Lexi Rodrigo said...

Ah, to be young again! I need to make my 40 x 40 list before I hit my mid-40s. Not sure I can come up with 40, though....

eliseconnors said...

Hey, Lexi! Thanks for stopping by. I believe you can do it (p.s. if you've already crossed 40, you need a 50x50 list *smile*).

Getting better is a wonderful thing!

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